Maybe there isnt a shortage of Good black men! Maybe there is a a shortage of Legit Black women that will recognize a "Good Black man" when he is present, not just when he has past them by. It shouldnt be a slap in the face maybe thats who he grew up around, or maybe because he was polite or a gentlemen he was thought of as weak and a white women recognized the gem. It doesnt take a whole day to realize sunshine! Even with that being said why is it ok for a Black women to date a white guy?
That "shortage of good black men" thing is BULLSHIT propaganda and if you believe it to be true, you need to ask yourself why is that. Its either because you heard someone else say it or because you're drawing off your personal experiences with black men. In the case of the former, don't beLIEve everything you hear. In the case of the latter, if you dealt with fucked up brothas its because there was something fucked up about you to not only attract BUT deal with that type of person to begin with. Like attracts like, that is universal LAW. That whole shortage of good black men thing was injected into our collective consciousness as a method to keep black men and women at odds with each other because "they" know divided we not only fall, but we stay down.
As for the topic at hand. Seeing a brotha with a cave bitch on his arm tends to touch a sensitive spot on black women ONLY because we are BOMBARDED with this bullshit pale skin+ blond hair+ blue eyes = beauty equation. Seeing our brothas fall victim to that does not help. Interracial dating is BAD business period on a social, spiritual,financial, and genetic level. Contraty to what "they" try to purport, we are NOT created equal and partaking in said behaiviors is watering down the ROYAL blood line. Of course that is jus my 2 pennies... AND men are NOT the dominate species. EVERY man dead and alive came through a WOMAN
Yamise has left a new comment on your post "Interacial Dating":The law of physics dictates that it requires elements of opposite energy to come together to create an element of positive energy. So every woman who has dealt with a messed up man is not necessarily messed up herself. In the case where we have engaged in unhealthy, unproductive relationships, the following are some points to consider. As a Sacred Sister (Refer to the works of Queen Afuah) it has been clearly documented that the role of the African woman from the birth of civilization has been to endure physical, mental and emotional brutality at the hands of their Nubian “Kings”. What we cannot document is where the distorted images of the relationship between men and women began. So any distorted self image that any woman of color may have that would lead us to be attracted to a black man whose self image is poor is as a result of our cultural and social miss-development. (If we are going to keep it real) We don’t know when we went from being their queens to being their concubines.The shortage of available, stable African American men to African American women is not just an experiential generalization but a given fact. The 2000 United States Census (given its inaccuracies based on non-reporting) clearly states that the ratio of black women to black men is 100 to 87. It is not able or does not choose to document how many of these 87 men are incarcerated, homeless in substance abuse treatment facilities or infected with HIV aids. It further was unable to document the number of those 87 who are unemployed or are unemployable due to illiteracy or simply choose to rely on the United States social service system. If we were able to by the process of elimination remove that segment of the male population from the supposed 87 men the ratio would dramatically change.All of us formulate our opinions based on our life experience.So in total agreement, the statement that seeing a brother with a white woman touches a raw nerve is true. Black men of this generation are the progeny of our loins. Of course it is going to trouble us to see the few supposedly good remnants of our genetic line fulfilling the Mandingo inspired fantasies of white woman.In closing LOL if you ascribe to the Judeo – Christian ethic you have been taught that woman came from man making the African man the source of all humanity.Posted by Yamise to CLUB PARLAY at December 12, 2010 8:56 PM
Equal opposing forces cancel each other out i.e. a positive 9 when added to a negative nine gives you zero. ALL “sciences” as we know them are derivatives of Universal Law as is everything else. The law of Magnetism dictates that you attract whatever energy you put out whether it is consciously OR subconsciously done; you are right in regards to thinking you can do something or you can’t every time. That is where we get the adage “think positive and positive will happen.” MANY people operate from a subconscious level so while a woman may not believe she is fucked up for attracting AND dealing with a man who is fucked, it could be because she is attracting him on a subconscious level. People are mirrors plain and simple. If someone’s energy is affecting you on a negative level, it is because they are showing you something about yourself that you are not comfortable with seeing. I Self Law Am Master, nothing affects me unless I grant it permission to do so. The blame game ceases to exist once accountability comes into play.
We can most certainly document where the distorted images of our relationships began. When the cave people crawled out of the Caucus Mountains and our ancestors erred on the side of logic in civilizing them. We as melanated people are out of our element and are trying to emulate a style of life that is not ours by nature. That is the origin of our down fall. Story began with Columbus sailing the ocean blue in 1492 and the plot thickened with the trans atlantic slave trade and the saga continues post emancipation proclamation with the Willie Lynch syndrome that so many of our people are STILL suffering from to this day.
As far as the census reference, you can miss me with it because for one it’s a decade old and for two I know wild people who didn’t fill out the 2010 census so its data is not reliable to me. But I do want to add that you can reverse what you said about not knowing how many black men are incarcerated, substance abusers, homosexual, homeless, and HIV/AIDS infected (which can and has been cured btw-google Dr Sebi) and apply those same conditions to women. Many people don’t do that because the media is always propagating how many black men are fucked up and on the flip side pushing the fact that 70% of African American women are single because of it. They do this in hopes of enticing black women to engage in interracial dating. Why? Because you get your lineage from the mother (google Jewish traditions and the people who you think are the jews, are impersonators) This is why I mentioned genetics, not because of the mandingo myth. European birth rates are at an all time low and they suffer the most in terms of infertility. Melanin is the building black of life. Enough said.
A nation can only rise as high as its women because we are the nurturers and first teachers. So if you our black men aint shit it’s because their mother’s aint shit true talk. Black women need to re-member who she is and raise her off springs accordingly. We are the original mothers and everyone came through us. There is no room to play the blame game. I love my black men and will do everything in my power to raise them back up to a respectable stature because I recognize the God in me and since he comes from me, he too is divine. Peace
Maybe there isnt a shortage of Good black men! Maybe there is a a shortage of Legit Black women that will recognize a "Good Black man" when he is present, not just when he has past them by. It shouldnt be a slap in the face maybe thats who he grew up around, or maybe because he was polite or a gentlemen he was thought of as weak and a white women recognized the gem. It doesnt take a whole day to realize sunshine! Even with that being said why is it ok for a Black women to date a white guy?
ReplyDeleteOh God...
ReplyDeleteThat "shortage of good black men" thing is BULLSHIT propaganda and if you believe it to be true, you need to ask yourself why is that. Its either because you heard someone else say it or because you're drawing off your personal experiences with black men. In the case of the former, don't beLIEve everything you hear. In the case of the latter, if you dealt with fucked up brothas its because there was something fucked up about you to not only attract BUT deal with that type of person to begin with. Like attracts like, that is universal LAW. That whole shortage of good black men thing was injected into our collective consciousness as a method to keep black men and women at odds with each other because "they" know divided we not only fall, but we stay down.
As for the topic at hand. Seeing a brotha with a cave bitch on his arm tends to touch a sensitive spot on black women ONLY because we are BOMBARDED with this bullshit pale skin+ blond hair+ blue eyes = beauty equation. Seeing our brothas fall victim to that does not help. Interracial dating is BAD business period on a social, spiritual,financial, and genetic level. Contraty to what "they" try to purport, we are NOT created equal and partaking in said behaiviors is watering down the ROYAL blood line.
Of course that is jus my 2 pennies... AND men are NOT the dominate species. EVERY man dead and alive came through a WOMAN
Yamise has left a new comment on your post "Interacial Dating":The law of physics dictates that it requires elements of opposite energy to come together to create an element of positive energy. So every woman who has dealt with a messed up man is not necessarily messed up herself. In the case where we have engaged in unhealthy, unproductive relationships, the following are some points to consider. As a Sacred Sister (Refer to the works of Queen Afuah) it has been clearly documented that the role of the African woman from the birth of civilization has been to endure physical, mental and emotional brutality at the hands of their Nubian “Kings”. What we cannot document is where the distorted images of the relationship between men and women began. So any distorted self image that any woman of color may have that would lead us to be attracted to a black man whose self image is poor is as a result of our cultural and social miss-development. (If we are going to keep it real) We don’t know when we went from being their queens to being their concubines.The shortage of available, stable African American men to African American women is not just an experiential generalization but a given fact. The 2000 United States Census (given its inaccuracies based on non-reporting) clearly states that the ratio of black women to black men is 100 to 87. It is not able or does not choose to document how many of these 87 men are incarcerated, homeless in substance abuse treatment facilities or infected with HIV aids. It further was unable to document the number of those 87 who are unemployed or are unemployable due to illiteracy or simply choose to rely on the United States social service system. If we were able to by the process of elimination remove that segment of the male population from the supposed 87 men the ratio would dramatically change.All of us formulate our opinions based on our life experience.So in total agreement, the statement that seeing a brother with a white woman touches a raw nerve is true. Black men of this generation are the progeny of our loins. Of course it is going to trouble us to see the few supposedly good remnants of our genetic line fulfilling the Mandingo inspired fantasies of white woman.In closing LOL if you ascribe to the Judeo – Christian ethic you have been taught that woman came from man making the African man the source of all humanity.Posted by Yamise to CLUB PARLAY at December 12, 2010 8:56 PM
ReplyDeleteEqual opposing forces cancel each other out i.e. a positive 9 when added to a negative nine gives you zero. ALL “sciences” as we know them are derivatives of Universal Law as is everything else. The law of Magnetism dictates that you attract whatever energy you put out whether it is consciously OR subconsciously done; you are right in regards to thinking you can do something or you can’t every time. That is where we get the adage “think positive and positive will happen.” MANY people operate from a subconscious level so while a woman may not believe she is fucked up for attracting AND dealing with a man who is fucked, it could be because she is attracting him on a subconscious level. People are mirrors plain and simple. If someone’s energy is affecting you on a negative level, it is because they are showing you something about yourself that you are not comfortable with seeing. I Self Law Am Master, nothing affects me unless I grant it permission to do so. The blame game ceases to exist once accountability comes into play.
ReplyDeleteWe can most certainly document where the distorted images of our relationships began. When the cave people crawled out of the Caucus Mountains and our ancestors erred on the side of logic in civilizing them. We as melanated people are out of our element and are trying to emulate a style of life that is not ours by nature. That is the origin of our down fall. Story began with Columbus sailing the ocean blue in 1492 and the plot thickened with the trans atlantic slave trade and the saga continues post emancipation proclamation with the Willie Lynch syndrome that so many of our people are STILL suffering from to this day.
As far as the census reference, you can miss me with it because for one it’s a decade old and for two I know wild people who didn’t fill out the 2010 census so its data is not reliable to me. But I do want to add that you can reverse what you said about not knowing how many black men are incarcerated, substance abusers, homosexual, homeless, and HIV/AIDS infected (which can and has been cured btw-google Dr Sebi) and apply those same conditions to women. Many people don’t do that because the media is always propagating how many black men are fucked up and on the flip side pushing the fact that 70% of African American women are single because of it. They do this in hopes of enticing black women to engage in interracial dating. Why? Because you get your lineage from the mother (google Jewish traditions and the people who you think are the jews, are impersonators) This is why I mentioned genetics, not because of the mandingo myth. European birth rates are at an all time low and they suffer the most in terms of infertility. Melanin is the building black of life. Enough said.
A nation can only rise as high as its women because we are the nurturers and first teachers. So if you our black men aint shit it’s because their mother’s aint shit true talk. Black women need to re-member who she is and raise her off springs accordingly. We are the original mothers and everyone came through us. There is no room to play the blame game. I love my black men and will do everything in my power to raise them back up to a respectable stature because I recognize the God in me and since he comes from me, he too is divine.
Peace